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How To Nag Less & Let Him Lead | Wife School With Tilly Dillehay

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Jul 18, 2025
In this insightful discussion, Tilly Dillehay, a pastor’s wife and Amazon best-selling author, dives into the intricacies of marriage, emphasizing the art of respectful communication. She shares wisdom on how women can let their husbands lead while still finding their voice. Tilly also tackles how to navigate marital challenges with grace, encouraging gratitude over conflict. With practical tips on fostering peace and accountability, this conversation is a valuable guide for wives and those aspiring to that role, blending biblical principles with real-world application.
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INSIGHT

Speak Thoughtfully, Not Immediately

  • Speaking everything you feel immediately can lead to nagging and conflict.
  • Timing and discretion are crucial for loving communication in marriage.
ADVICE

Use Courtesy and Gratitude Daily

  • Speak to your husband with courtesy, gratitude, and kindness daily.
  • Saying "thank you" frequently can drastically improve your marriage atmosphere.
ADVICE

Build Positivity Before Criticism

  • Practice saying three thank-yous to your husband each day with a friend.
  • Focus on positive things to build relational capital before bringing up concerns.
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