Episode 344: Dating is an extended hiring process

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Jul 17, 2023

The podcast delves into dating as a hiring process, suggesting that men essentially evaluate women for a role in their lives. It highlights the psychological dynamics of compatibility and how individuals assess traits and skills just like hiring candidates. The discussion offers a fresh perspective on relationships, emphasizing mutual benefit and the significance of understanding this unique approach to dating.

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INSIGHT

Man's Role in Dating Choice

The man's invitation to the woman reflects a position he has created in his life for her.
He evaluates whether she fits this role by judging her traits, skills, and attributes.

INSIGHT

Dating as Hiring Process

Dating can be reframed as an extended hiring process driven by the man choosing the right partner.
The man assesses if the woman has traits suitable for the role he envisions inviting her into.

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In no culture that I'm aware of does the woman propose to the man. What this means is that, ultimately, it is the man who invites the woman into his life -- not the other way around. Appreciation of this fact reframes dating as an extended hiring process, in which the man attempts to determine whether the woman possesses the traits, skills, and attributes necessary to discharge the responsibilities associated with the position he has created in his life for her.

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