"Come On, Man" Podcast

Attraction Dies When You Forget THIS Frame Rule...

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Aug 22, 2025
Struggling with respect in relationships? It might be a frame issue! Discover how mental frame influences attraction, decision-making, and authority. Learn strategies to rebuild your frame, apply stoic control during conflicts, and reset your mindset for deeper connections. Explore the importance of preserving one’s mental independence and fostering an abundant mindset. Plus, get tips on setting boundaries and identifying red flags in dating. Master your masculine presence to reignite attraction!
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INSIGHT

Frame Determines Attraction

  • Mental frame defines whether you're seen as confident or clingy in relationships.
  • Maintaining your own mental origin preserves attraction and authority.
ANECDOTE

Forum Story: Losing Frame After A Year

  • Paul recounts a forum post from a 34-year-old who lost frame after a year of dating.
  • The man's shift to prioritizing his girlfriend triggered betatization and loss of attraction.
ADVICE

Use Scarcity To Create Value

  • Limit texting and keep contact sparse early to build scarcity and value.
  • See her mainly in person and only initiate on high emotional moments to set dates.
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