
The Niche Is You If We’re Going to Love Each Other… Let’s Love the Imperfect, Messy Self
Dec 24, 2025
24:05
In this episode we’ll talk about:
- Why presenting ourselves as “perfect” creates distance, not connection
- How fear drives image-management in relationships
- Why messiness is not a flaw, but a doorway to intimacy
- The difference between loving someone and allowing them to be imperfect
- How emotional safety creates deeper bonds
- Why real love requires risk — and protection once it’s found
- and more.
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