Learning to share our honest, imperfect stories, by Leila Day
Feb 4, 2025
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Leila Day, an award-winning journalist and co-host of "The Stoop," shares her journey of self-discovery while living in Cuba. She discusses how a simple change in her expression revealed the depth of others' perceptions and the power of her authentic voice. Leila reflects on embracing her identity through dance and the liberating experience of accepting her natural hair. She emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in storytelling as a means to foster genuine connections and empowers listeners to share their own imperfect stories.
Leila Day's move to Cuba reveals the transformative power of place in shaping personal identity and fostering deeper connections within a community.
Through her Afro-Cuban dance lessons, she learns to embrace her physicality and celebrate her curves, promoting self-acceptance and empowerment in her heritage.
Deep dives
The Juxtaposition of Cultures
Living in Cuba provides a stark contrast to the speaker's experiences in the United States. In Havana, people are openly expressive, engaging in philosophical discussions along the Malecón while enjoying the lively atmosphere. This environment fosters a sense of community and connection that feels lacking in the insular nature of San Francisco. The speaker reflects on how this vibrant culture contrasts with her earlier feelings of loneliness in America, highlighting the importance of place and cultural context in shaping personal identity.
Embracing Authenticity Through Dance and Expression
Dance becomes a powerful vehicle for the speaker to reclaim her identity and embrace her physicality in Cuba. Through Afro-Cuban dance lessons, she learns to celebrate her curves and her heritage, guided by an instructor who encourages her to express herself fully. This physical expression allows her to connect deeper with her roots, fostering a newfound sense of confidence and pride in her identity. The lessons she learns on the dance floor translate into a broader understanding of self-acceptance and empowerment.
Navigating Identity and Perception
The speaker experiences a shift in how her identity is perceived after changing her hairstyle, which brings unexpected comments that reveal underlying prejudices in Cuban society. While Cuba celebrates its mixed heritage, the speaker discovers that the same issues of racial hierarchy from the United States persist, albeit in different forms. This realization prompts her to engage in conversations with friends about race and identity, deepening her understanding of cultural perceptions. By sharing her experiences through writing, she connects with others, illustrating the power of stories to challenge societal norms and foster dialogue.
Journalist and beloved podcast host Leila Day grows up being told that she should “tone it down.” When she moves to Cuba in her early twenties, she finally finds a place that embraces her whole identity — or so she thinks at first. It’s only after making one simple change that Leila sees how quickly others treat her differently, and she realizes she has something to say about it. By expressing her authentic voice, she finds her authentic power.
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