Get ready with me for a first date in London (VLOG)
Jan 29, 2024
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In this vlog-style podcast, the speaker prepares for a first date in London, sharing their hesitation and concerns. They discuss the importance of trusting intuition, share makeup tips, and reflect on the freedom of dating yourself. Reflecting on being stood up, they find gratitude and enjoy their evening. They emphasize the significance of embracing your own path and finding peace in the present moment.
Setting clear boundaries and ensuring genuine intentions from potential partners is crucial when dating.
Approaching dating with zero expectations and prioritizing having fun can lead to a more enjoyable and empowering experience.
Deep dives
Trusting Intuition and Prioritizing Self-Worth
The speaker reflects on the doubts and concerns she had before going on a date with someone she met on Instagram. Having been used in the past due to her social media following, she emphasizes the importance of ensuring genuine intentions from potential partners. She talks about the growth in her self-confidence and the value of setting clear boundaries when dating. Despite the cancellation of the date, she emphasizes the need to trust the universe's redirection and the empowering experience of dating oneself.
The Lesson of Having Zero Expectations
The speaker shares her belief in the unpredictability of dating and the need to approach it with zero expectations. She highlights the importance of having fun and not wasting time when not feeling a connection. The speaker mentions the newfound comfort in being alone, stating that one can always leave an uncomfortable situation. She also expresses gratitude for being in control of her own journey and not comparing herself to others' timelines.
Embracing Rejection and Finding Peace
The speaker recounts being stood up by her date and the initial disappointment she felt. However, she embraces the situation as a lesson and a sign to focus on herself. She emphasizes not taking rejection personally and understanding that others' actions are not a reflection of one's worth. The speaker encourages listeners to embrace their unique paths and not compare themselves to others. She concludes by expressing gratitude for the experience and the opportunity to inspire others on a journey of self-love and self-discovery.
A different type of podcast - vlog style. If you have Spotify, you can watch the video on the app, or watch the video on YouTube here. GET READY WITH ME FOR A FIRST DATE in London, one of my favorite cities in the world. This past December I decided to take a solo trip back to the UK to celebrate the holidays, have some good comfort food, and experience what it's like to use dating apps for the first time in A WHILE. In this particular situation, I ended up connecting with a guy on instagram, and then there was a major plot twist...enjoy!
If you enjoyed this episode, feel free to DM me as always on instagram @lyss and @dateyourselfinstead.