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Unshamed & Unchained: Carving Space For Self-Healing & Habit Transformation

45. Finding Naked Women Attractive Isn't the Problem

Oct 20, 2023
33:25

Real client example today.

He thought the problem was that he just "really finds naked women attractive to look at."

I asked him why.

His response revealed 4 things that are the real issues. Once we address these 4 things, suddenly it's no longer a problem that he finds naked women attractive to look at.

Quitting porn for good in a sex-positive way means we don't make it a problem that we are sexual beings, with sexual ideas/thoughts/feelings along the way.

Instead, we reprogram our brains to reduce desire for viewing these pixels on a screen. All while embracing our sexuality in a way that allows us to feel great about ourselves.

Because the truth is, you are already whole and complete, as you are. You are already worthy.

Let's just learn to use your brain in a more skillful way that allows you to live life in line with your values.

Tune in to today's episode now to learn some new skills for retraining your own brain.

Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life so good that porn becomes irrelevant. He created this podcast to help those who are struggling with porn in their marriage and lives, and who know deep down there's something "more" for them if they just learn the skill of doing life porn free.

START WITH THIS: Access Free Webinar Training (click here)
Check out Danny's Instagram here: @dannypoelmancoaching
Ready to work with Danny? Schedule a free consultation here: Work With Me
Website: https://www.dannypoelman.com 

START WITH THIS: Access Free Webinar Training (click here)

Check out Danny's Instagram here: @dannypoelmancoaching
Ready to work with Danny? Schedule a free consultation here: Work With Me
Website: https://www.dannypoelman.com

Danny Poelman is a certified life coach and helps guys stop looking at pornography (and be happy about it) and make their real life so good that porn becomes irrelevant. He created this podcast to help those who are struggling with porn in their marriage and lives, and who know deep down there's something "more" for them if they just learn the skill of doing life porn free.

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