The Art of Accomplishment Want over Should — Master Class Series #6
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Mar 15, 2021 The discussion highlights how the word 'should' often traps us in feelings of shame and obligation. It advocates for embracing genuine wants to facilitate growth and empowerment. Listeners learn to distinguish between cravings and true desires, emphasizing feelings over societal expectations. Intention versus attachment in personal success is explored, offering insights into pursuing authentic desires for deeper fulfillment. A personal journey from obligation to authenticity showcases the transformative power of prioritizing what truly matters.
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Should as Shame
- "Should" is a mechanism of shame, a bad management technique.
- It creates internal rebellion or disempowerment, hindering progress.
Joe's "Should" Revelation
- Joe Hudson learned about "shoulds" by listing things he didn't like about himself.
- Unacknowledged traits changed, but those tied to "shoulds" remained.
Internal Rebellion
- Controlling yourself with "shoulds" evokes rebellion or submission.
- These responses hinder empowerment and create a victim mentality.