
A Slight Change of Plans Can Uncertainty Be a Gift?
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Aug 4, 2026 Simone Stolzoff, journalist and author of How to Not Know, investigates the value of living with unanswerable questions. They explore uncertainty as a source of possibility and growth. Short strategies for holding ambiguity, identity shifts in change, and how doubt can lead to discovery are discussed in quick, engaging turns.
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Waiting Amplifies Stress More Than Known Outcomes
- Waiting for results often causes more stress than receiving bad outcomes because uncertainty prevents directing energy and planning.
- Maya connects studies about biopsies and test-result anxiety to moments in her life when not knowing undermined well-being.
Anchor Identity To Why Not What You Do
- Anchoring identity to your why (values) is more resilient than anchoring it to what you do, because the why persists when roles change.
- Maya describes losing her violin and discovering human connection was the core why that led her to cognitive science and hosting.
Slack Was Born By Shutting Down A Hit Game
- Tiny Speck shut down its popular game despite success and pivoted to an internal communications tool that became Slack.
- Simone uses Stuart Butterfield's decision to close Glitch early as an example of discovering opportunity within uncertainty.







