Modern Wisdom #917 - Vanessa Van Edwards - The Art Of Effortless Confidence & Social Persuasion
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Mar 20, 2025 
Vanessa Van Edwards, a behavioral researcher and author, shares her expertise on social interactions. She reveals the secrets to making great first impressions and overcoming social awkwardness. Discover the power of nonverbal cues and how to improve charisma. Learn practical tips for effective small talk and how to detect deception by recognizing behavioral cues. Vanessa also discusses transforming self-doubt into confident communication, making the art of compliments, and navigating the complexities of attraction and connection.
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Hand Gestures
- Keep hands visible during social interactions to build trust and avoid awkwardness.
- Use gestures to emphasize points and make yourself easier to understand.
The Importance of Visible Hands
- People look at hands first to assess intentions, especially in initial interactions or meetings.
- Visible hands aid comprehension and reduce anxiety caused by uncertainty.
Charismatic Listening
- When listening, keep hands still but visible, possibly in a steeple position.
- Use nonverbal cues like slow triple nods and lower lid flexes to show deep engagement.