The Art of Accomplishment What is Selfishness?
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Nov 19, 2021 The discussion dives into the fine line between self-interest and selfishness, challenging societal norms that equate self-care with selfishness. Embracing individual desires can actually enhance happiness and strengthen connections. The speakers explore how parenting influences perceptions of sharing and altruism, shedding light on the complexities of teaching compassion. Group dynamics and personal motivations are examined, revealing the power of vulnerability in communication. Ultimately, it promotes a compassionate understanding of selfishness, emphasizing empathy over judgment.
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Selfishness Defined
- Joe Hudson defines selfishness as what parents call their children when they don't get what they want.
- He argues that true selfishness involves exploring one's wants without guilt, leading to a refined understanding of happiness and altruism.
Parenting and Selfishness
- Brett Kistler discusses how some achieve their wants at others' expense, using a parenting example.
- A parent might call a child selfish to teach group dynamics or protect a younger, less capable child.
The Last Cookie
- Suppressing desires leads to resentment and missed opportunities in groups, like the uneaten last cookie.
- Voice your wants; unexpressed desires hinder group wisdom and individual needs.