The Dr. John Delony Show My Husband and I Haven’t Had Sex in 2 Years
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Aug 15, 2025 In this insightful discussion, a wife expresses her frustration over two years of a sexless marriage. A listener grapples with whether to ask his girlfriend to move in, navigating the complexities of commitment. A woman shares her struggle with her husband's addictions, revealing the emotional impact on their family. The conversations touch on the need for open communication, personal accountability, and the difficult intersection of love, trauma, and responsibility in relationships.
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Sexlessness Signals Deeper Disconnection
- Lack of sex is often a symptom of deeper emotional disconnection and unresolved relational issues.
- John Delony emphasizes that frequency alone isn't the problem; mutual communication and meeting needs are.
Self-Blame Is Common But Misplaced
- Many women blame themselves for a partner's lack of desire, but the problem is often physiological or behavioral on the husband's side.
- Delony rebukes self-blame and normalizes that countless women face similar situations.
Stop Waiting — Take Concrete Steps
- Stop waiting and take decisive next steps like scheduling couple therapy or contacting an attorney for papers.
- Use concrete actions to break the passive 'waiting' pattern and force movement in the relationship.