YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship with Jodi Carlton, MEd My Autistic Partner Changes But It Doesn’t Last
May 1, 2024
Explore the ups and downs of loving someone with Asperger's as personal stories reveal struggles with explosive moments and silent treatments. Discover the cycle of hope and disappointment that many face. Gain insights into codependency and the difficulties of effective communication. Learn how educational resources can enhance understanding of autism and improve interactions. Self-reflection emerges as a crucial tool for fostering healthier connections in neurodiverse relationships.
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Reconnecting With Asperger's Ex
- A listener shares reconnecting with an Asperger's ex-boyfriend who promised change but reverted to old harmful behaviors.
- Despite efforts and counseling, the pattern of explosive moods and silent treatments repeats, causing devastation.
Codependency In Neurodiverse Relationships
- Trying to hold an autistic partner together indicates codependency where one does all the work to fix things.
- The partner must do the work of change themselves, as codependents can't fix the situation alone.
Intentions Without Skills Cause Repetition
- An autistic partner's promises to change often come from good intentions but lack the skills to follow through.
- Traditional counseling often fails because it focuses on emotions rather than autism-specific communication challenges.