ManTalks Podcast Break Free From Nice Guy Syndrome
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May 5, 2022 Explore the journey of breaking free from the 'nice guy syndrome.' Learn how assertiveness can transform relationships and end passive-aggressive patterns. Discover the value of direct communication in expressing your needs, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. The conversation dives into personal growth and the challenges involved in shedding outdated behaviors. Join the dialogue about self-awareness and the path to healthier, more authentic connections.
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The 20-Year Marriage
- Connor Beaton discusses a client who believed meeting his wife's every need would guarantee his needs being met in return.
- This client resorted to childish complaints when his strategy failed.
Stop Complaining
- Stop complaining, criticizing, and judging women to get your needs met.
- Women are more attracted to men they respect, and negativity diminishes respect.
Ask Directly
- Ask directly for what you want and need in a relationship.
- Practice exposure therapy to overcome the fear of rejection by expressing your needs.