Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

When a Child’s Emotions Seem Fake and Manipulative

Apr 21, 2021
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ADVICE

Normalize All Emotions

  • Accept all emotions as normal daily occurrences and let them pass naturally.
  • Avoid judging emotions as fake or manipulative to maintain clarity and ease in responding.
INSIGHT

Child Senses Parental Vulnerability

  • Children may sense parents' vulnerability around emotions and express feelings accordingly.
  • This can look like exaggerated emotions as children test how parents respond.
INSIGHT

Children Prefer Sadness to Anger

  • Children often express anger through tearful or sad behaviors because it's easier to evoke empathy.
  • Parents may unknowingly encourage this by showing more sympathy for sadness than anger.
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