Happier with Gretchen Rubin Little Happier: Drifting Through Life: When Not Deciding Becomes a Decision
May 12, 2025
Dive into the intriguing concept of 'drift'—how making no decision can often become a decision in itself. Discover the consequences of passive choices and the importance of recognizing this pattern in your life. The discussion also explores the risks and rewards of drifting in major areas like career and relationships. Gain practical tips for mindful decision-making to enhance your personal fulfillment and take control of your life's direction.
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Understanding Drift
- Drift means making decisions by not deciding or avoiding responsibility for consequences.
- It can feel small but become a powerful, almost unstoppable force in life.
Gretchen Rubin's Law School Drift
- Gretchen Rubin drifted into law school without a clear plan but ended up glad she went.
- This shows how drift can lead to fortunate outcomes, though often without mindfulness.
Drift in Marriage Decisions
- A friend married despite feeling relief at the thought of not marrying, leading to divorce a year later.
- This shows how drift can influence major personal life decisions with painful consequences.