Zeke & Terri Mead: Near Divorce - How We Accidentally Saved Our 25-Year Marriage & Reclaimed Our Sexuality | #169

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Dec 9, 2025

Terri Mead, a midlife reinvention coach, and her adventurous husband Zeke share their transformational journey from near divorce to rediscovery in their marriage. After admitting their unhappiness, they embraced 'sexploration' to reclaim pleasure and intimacy, experimenting with new ways to connect. Terri reveals insights into prioritizing her own desires, while Zeke discusses rethinking marriage as a flexible partnership. Their candid conversation highlights vulnerability, playful experimentation, and the importance of open communication in nurturing love at midlife.

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ANECDOTE

Sexploration Rebooted Their Marriage

Terri and Zeke separated after dancing around divorce for a decade and officially moved toward separation in January 2021.
Terri invited sex during that week apart and their “sexploration” unexpectedly rebooted their relationship.

INSIGHT

Decouple The Old Marriage To Reimagine It

Viewing a relationship as redesignable freed Zeke to experiment with being a different partner.
Reimagining the marriage let them choose daily recommitment instead of staying stuck in old patterns.

INSIGHT

Give Partners Space To Do It Their Way

Letting each partner try roles their way unlocked creativity and better outcomes.
Allowing different approaches replaced stale expectations and refreshed their marriage.

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Picture this: January 2021, middle of the pandemic. After 25 years of marriage, Zeke and Terri finally admitted what everyone already knew. They weren't happy. They weren't good for each other anymore. Their kids responded to the divorce announcement with "it's about time." For ten years, they'd danced around separation, taking turns being the one who wasn't ready to let go. During their first week living separately (Zeke had moved into their son's bedroom), Terri went through her own emotional journey. By Saturday, driving to tennis with gorgeous weather and great music, she felt ready for whatever came next. One thing she definitely wanted was really good sex. She wanted to reclaim who she'd been before marriage, rediscover her midlife body, understand what she actually enjoyed. That evening, she made a proposition that changed everything: "What do you think about having sex? I want to reclaim who I am. I want to experiment." What happened was the beginning of what Terri calls "sexploration." With no pressure, no obligation, no expectations about their relationship's future, they started playing. Terri researched toys, techniques, videos. She centered her own pleasure instead of everyone else's needs. They became vulnerable with each other. They communicated about everything. Most surprisingly, they started falling back in love, but this time consciously, intentionally, with completely different ground rules.

KEY INSIGHTS

Weekly relationship check-ins prevent small issues from becoming marriage-ending problems using five essential questions
Sexual exploration without obligation transforms intimacy when women take responsibility for their own pleasure
Daily recommitment builds security while honoring choice, with morning "I love you" commitments replacing trapped feelings
Divorcing your old relationship to consciously create a new one works better than trying to fix what's br

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