On Purpose with Jay Shetty

6 Ways to Know if You're Compatible with Someone and 4 Steps to Build Real Connection

Sep 16, 2022

Discover the intriguing difference between chemistry and compatibility in relationships. Learn why strong attraction isn’t enough for lasting connections. Explore six crucial areas of compatibility and the value of recognizing and respecting differences. Uncover how expressing feelings without judgment can enhance intimacy. The discussion emphasizes the importance of shared values and emotional support for building real connections. Dive into practical steps for fostering a deeper bond with your partner.

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The importance of recognizing and respecting differences in a compatible relationship

01:17

Compatibility and Chemistry

01:38

Are You Compatible With Someone?

01:22

Intro

2min

Understanding Relationship Compatibility

16min

Navigating Relationship Compatibility

5min

Understanding Relationship Compatibility: Key Insights and Practical Steps

11min

Exploring Compatibility and Growth in Relationships

3min

Today, I’m going to share with you the difference between chemistry and compatibility, why we often mistake having strong chemistry and attraction to our partner as compatibility, and how these two are completely different but related at the same time.

We get to dive into how chemistry and compatibility are both crucial elements to sustain a successful relationship, as well as how we can strengthen our bond by recognizing our differences, having respect for each other at all times, and being able to express our feelings and emotions freely and without judgment.

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Key Takeaways:

00:00 Intro
02:31 Chemistry doesn’t work without compatibility
14:45 Recognize differences
18:55 Awareness of their stance
22:08 Respect their approach
23:17 Express your feelings without feeling judged
26:11 The six areas of compatibility

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