Episode 327: Helping Kids Find Fun & Feelings with Enneagram 7’s with David and Sissy

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Nov 20, 2025

Discover the vibrant world of Enneagram Sevens, the enthusiastic and adventurous spirits in our families. Dive into their unique strengths like creativity and joy, while acknowledging their struggles with pain and follow-through. Learn practical tips for Seven parents on embracing hard emotions and fostering resilience in their children. Enjoy heartwarming anecdotes that celebrate the delightful chaos Sevens bring, reminding us to cherish ordinary moments and cultivate contentment.

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INSIGHT

Sevens Add Joy And Future Focus

Enneagram 7s bring contagious optimism, energy, and creativity that uplift families and spark curiosity.
Their future orientation fuels adventure and resilience but can also miss present emotions.

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Avoiding Pain Drives Busy Escapes

Sevens commonly avoid emotional pain by chasing activity, plans, or excitement instead of sitting with feelings.
This mental escape can disconnect them from present relationships and lead to crashes later.

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Impulsivity Can Mimic ADHD

Sevens' impulsivity and quick decisions can resemble ADHD behaviors, so assess temperament before labeling.
Consider foundational temperament before jumping to clinical conclusions.

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In this episode, Sissy and David turn their attention to Enneagram Sevens—the Enthusiasts, Optimists, and Adventurers who bring joy, imagination, and energy to the world. They explore the unique strengths Sevens offer their families, like creativity, flexibility, and a contagious zest for life, as well as the struggles they face with avoiding pain, overscheduling, and following through. You’ll also hear practical encouragement for Seven parents learning to sit with hard emotions, and guidance for raising Seven kids who are curious, adventurous, and grounded.

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