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'What If We Lived In Two Houses?' Talking Kids Through Divorce

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Apr 29, 2019
Navigating divorce with children can be incredibly challenging. The hosts share practical tips on when and how to inform kids about the split. They emphasize the importance of recognizing and validating children's emotions during this transition. Personal experiences from young girls illustrate the ups and downs of living between two homes. Consistency and routines are highlighted as key to helping kids feel secure. Open communication is encouraged, allowing children to express their feelings while maintaining a positive outlook on family memories.
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ADVICE

Give Kids a Heads-Up

  • Give children as much advance notice as possible about an impending separation or divorce.
  • This allows them time to adjust to the idea of this big transition.
ANECDOTE

Jada's Experience

  • Jada told her daughter Sophia about the divorce unexpectedly after Sophia questioned their arguments.
  • Jada's husband was not present, leading to some regret about the unplanned conversation.
ADVICE

Divorce is a Grown-Up Problem

  • Keep divorce discussions focused on the fact that it's a grown-up issue, not the children's fault.
  • Avoid oversharing details or blaming; simply explain that the parents have problems they can't solve together.
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