Life Kit DLK: In our relationship, her dog comes first. Now I'm having doubts about us
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Apr 10, 2025 
Join Haley Nahman, a culture writer and the author of Maybe Baby, as she explores the often turbulent waters of romantic relationships. She discusses the normalcy of doubt in love, especially when pets introduce unexpected dynamics. The conversation touches on pet jealousy, making moves on friends, and the mantra that uncertainty isn’t necessarily a bad thing. With listener dilemmas and personal stories, they highlight the importance of communication and self-awareness in navigating love’s complexities.
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Doubt is Normal
- Doubt in romantic relationships is normal, not a sign of failure.
- Relationships have pros and cons; doubt arises when cons outweigh hypothetical alternatives.
Pet Jealousy
- Address the time commitment a new pet requires early in a relationship.
- If your lifestyles clash, consider ending it; if compatible, communicate needs and include the pet.
Dog Impact
- One couple broke up due to the stress of a high-needs dog.
- Another person, initially hesitant, found deep meaning in sharing a partner's existing dog.