

#177 The Real Reason You Don’t Want Sex in Your “Good” Relationship
You say your husband’s great. Supportive. A great dad. He helps around the house. He doesn’t cheat.
So why don’t you want to have sex with him?
If everything looks good on paper but feels emotionally lonely, this episode is for you.
We’re talking about the invisible power dynamics that cause erotic shutdown, especially for high-achieving women with supertraits like empathy, loyalty, and perseverance.
Here’s what you’ll walk away with:
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Why your libido isn’t broken, it’s protecting you
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How “nice guy” behaviors create disconnection
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The impact of decision-making imbalances on desire
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Why performative praise isn’t the same as true partnership
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How to stop explaining away your unmet needs and start getting fed
You're not broken. You’re starving. And your relationship may have never made space for your full erotic self.
Take the Pleasure Path Assessment to discover your erotic shutdown style and get your personalized reconnection plan. [CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR ASSESSMENT]
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