The Covert Narcissism Podcast How to Set Boundaries with a Covert Narcissist
People often come to me and say, “I need to get better at setting boundaries.” Ok, what have you tried so far?
I tried telling him/her - I don’t like it when you call me sweetie. I don’t like that name.
What happened?
He told me, “but it is because you are SO sweet to me and I can’t believe that you have a problem with me showing my gratitude. You know that really hurts.” So now I feel bad for asking him not to call me that. It isn’t that big of a deal. I should be more appreciative.
Setting boundaries with a covert narcissist often backfires. They weaponize it against you, causing you to feel guilty for saying anything in the first place. So how do we set boundaries?I am Renee Swanson, and I help people recover from covert narcissistic abuse.
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Renee Swanson, Certified Coach and Advocate for Victims of Covert Narcissistic Abuse
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