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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Matt Monday): How to Get Out of the Casual Dating Trap

Nov 27, 2023
16:05
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Learn how to go from casual to committed in dating by setting high standards. Discover the importance of communicating worthiness and achieving the 'bliss point'. Find out how to effectively communicate your standards in dating. Explore the secrets of building a strong relationship based on standards and deep attraction.
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Quick takeaways

  • Having and communicating high standards is key to finding a genuine committed relationship, as it attracts the best behavior in others and builds lasting attraction.
  • To effectively communicate standards, one should find the bliss point balance between being assertive and affectionate, ensuring that messages convey desire for equal effort and need for clarity while maintaining playfulness.

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The Importance of Having and Communicating Standards

In today's dating culture, many women are tired of mixed messages and meaningless hookups. The key to finding a genuine committed relationship lies in having and communicating high standards. Often, people have high standards for superficial qualities like looks or charisma, while overlooking more important factors like kindness and consistency. While it's important not to lower standards, it's also crucial to give people a chance initially and then narrow down the choices for a real relationship. Maintaining standards is attractive and brings out the best behavior in others, while dropping standards leads to negative dynamics. Attraction is built on respect, and it's essential to have standards and communicate them effectively.

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