Learn the importance of being unreachable as a father and setting boundaries between work and family. Discover how to prioritize quality time with loved ones and be fully present. Check out the Stoic Parent resource for 10 commandments on becoming a better parent.
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Quick takeaways
Maintaining clear boundaries between work and personal life is crucial for achieving a balanced life.
Being fully present in each domain, without letting work interfere with family time or vice versa, is key to fulfilling our responsibilities both at work and at home.
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The Importance of Being Unreachable
Being unreachable is essential for maintaining a balance between work and family life. Charles De Gaulle, a successful head of state, exemplified this by setting clear boundaries between his work and personal life. After leaving the office, De Gaulle made himself almost completely inaccessible, allowing his time with his family to be his own. Similarly, when De Gaulle was at work, his family respected his boundaries. By being unreachable, we can be fully present in the moment, whether it's enjoying a meal with our family or focusing on work tasks without constant interruptions.
Finding Balance and Giving Proper Attention
To achieve a balanced life, we must learn to give proper attention to both work and family. Neither should be elevated above the other; instead, each should be given its proper due when needed, existing in their own spheres. It's important to be fully present in each domain, not letting work interfere with family time or vice versa. The Stoic Parent provides a comprehensive guide to being a better parent, emphasizing the first commandment of putting family first. By creating boundaries and maintaining a balanced approach, we can successfully fulfill our responsibilities both at work and at home.
"You work hard. You have so many responsibilities. So many people depend on you.
Which is precisely why you must work to become unreachable."
Ryan tells us why it's so important to keep work and home life separate in today's Daily Dad Podcast.
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