The Allender Center Podcast

Moving from Broken to Beloved with Brian Lee

Aug 22, 2025
Brian Lee, a pastor, coach, and founder of the nonprofit Broken to Beloved, shares his journey through spiritual abuse. He discusses the deep impact of betrayal on trust in God and community. The conversation emphasizes the transformation from feeling broken to recognizing one's inherent worth as beloved. Lee highlights the importance of collective healing and the role of communities in creating safe spaces for survivors. This candid dialogue encourages compassion, curiosity in faith, and the reclaiming of spiritual agency.
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ANECDOTE

Repeated Spiritual Abuse In Ministry

  • Brian Lee grew up in church, became a pastor, and experienced spiritual abuse in multiple churches over many years.
  • He only recognized it as spiritual abuse about five years ago and began learning language and healing practices.
INSIGHT

How Spiritual Abuse Operates

  • Spiritual abuse is when spiritual authority uses scripture, prayer, or power to dehumanize or shame a person.
  • It strips agency and redirects spiritual practices toward shame rather than belovedness.
ADVICE

Reclaim Your Story And Agency

  • Reclaim your story by naming what happened and joining a safe, compassionate community that will believe you.
  • Learn trauma terms, notice bodily responses, and choose how to navigate triggers to recover agency.
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