

The 3 Critical Building Blocks of All Life-Long Relationships EP 1475
33 snips Jul 28, 2023
Join Esther Perel, a renowned relationship expert, as she delves into the complexities of intimacy and desire. Faith Jenkins, an insightful legal analyst, shares red flags to avoid in partnerships and the importance of emotional maturity. Matthew Hussey, a popular dating expert, discusses the 'activation energy' in relationships and why space is essential. Together, they explore the key elements of lasting connections, the stages of relationships, and how personal growth enhances desirability. Tune in for transformative insights on fostering healthy, thriving partnerships!
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Relationship Demise
- The four cornerstones of relationship demise are indifference, neglect, violence, and contempt.
- Contempt is the most destructive because it degrades the other person's essence.
Mirrored Relationships
- Two key relationships often mirror each other: the one with your parents and the one with your romantic partner.
- Learned behaviors like closeness, trust, and jealousy stem from our upbringing and influence our romantic relationships.
Shifting Relationship Dynamics
- Societal shifts in the last 60 years, like contraception and changing views on sexuality, have drastically altered relationship dynamics.
- Modern relationships seek both stability and excitement from one partner, a challenging ideal.