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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear

145. What Happens When Your Children Needs Their Own Representation In Your Divorce

Mar 21, 2025
01:14:57

In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, we explore the complexities of hiring a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) or an Attorney for the Child (AFC), two roles that are often involved when there are disputes over parenting time or custody. Special guest Randi Karmel, a seasoned attorney based in New York, shares her expert insights on when and why these professionals might be appointed in divorce cases and how they can impact your case.

What you’ll learn:

  • The roles and differences between a GAL and an AFC, and how they advocate for children in custody cases
  • How to determine if you need an AFC or GAL, and the potential impact on your case
  • The importance of honesty and transparency when communicating with an AFC or GAL
  • Key differences in how these roles work in different states, like New York versus Illinois
  • How to prepare for interviews with an AFC or GAL and what to avoid doing during these interactions


Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course


Our Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck


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