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Not Alone

Attachment Theory: Secrets to a Successful Relationship with Julie Menanno

Nov 21, 2023
Exploring attachment theory, licensed therapist Julie Menanno discusses the impact of attachment styles on relationships, the environment for avoidant attachment, the pitfalls of online relationship advice, and the intriguing fact that only half of our attachment needs are met in relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Meeting attachment needs in relationships is crucial for success, encompassing feeling valued, validated, appreciated, and trusted.
  • Recognizing and understanding different attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized) can aid in improving communication and addressing emotional needs.

Deep dives

Understanding Attachment Needs in Relationships

Attachment theory emphasizes the importance of meeting attachment needs in relationships. Thriving relationships are built on around 13 to 15 fundamental attachment needs. These needs include feeling valued, appreciated, understood, validated, trusted, and trusting. Each interaction in a relationship presents an opportunity to either fulfill or neglect these needs, shaping the connection between partners.

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