When Our Kids Seem Troubled by Our Emotions and Moods
Nov 26, 2024
A parent expresses concern that their toddler feels responsible for family emotions, asking repeatedly if mom is happy. The discussion explores how children can be sensitive to parental moods while finding the right balance between teaching empathy and preventing emotional burdens. Tips focus on open communication and guiding kids through complex feelings. Lastly, the importance of recognizing children's emotional needs during tough times is emphasized, highlighting a resource aimed at fostering healthy family relationships.
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Explaining Feelings
Instead of saying "I'm not happy all the time," explain your feelings briefly to your child.
This helps them understand your world and reduces their fear of being the cause.
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Child's Perspective
Children are naturally concerned about their parents' happiness because parents hold significant power in their lives.
A parent's feelings directly impact the child's sense of security.
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Self-Reflection
Reflect on whether your child's behavior contributes to your negative emotions.
This introspection can reveal unmet needs or boundary issues.
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In this encore episode, a parent writes that she and her husband are concerned their toddler feels responsible for their emotions. This is a trait they both recognize from their own backgrounds. “He asks again and again, ‘Happy, mommy?’ as if he’s trying to help me be happy.” This mom says that if she admits to her toddler that, no, she is not entirely happy at the moment, he gives her hugs and cuddles and persists in asking if she's happy. While these parents want to foster their child’s empathy and sensitivity, they don’t want him taking on the burden of other people’s emotions. They’re hoping Janet has some advice to help manage this delicate balancing act.
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