Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 075 - Primary Partners and Priority in Polyamory
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Jul 12, 2016 The podcast explores hierarchy and priority in polyamory, challenging the idea that a primary/secondary structure is the only way to navigate long-term relationships. They discuss the concept of organic priority, emphasizing flexibility and fluidity in prioritizing partners. The hosts also address the dynamics of egalitarianism and the evolving importance of relationships. Additionally, they discuss the benefits of joining their Patreon community and the importance of supporting metamours.
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Hierarchy Types
- Dedeker, Emily, and Jase distinguish between prescriptive and descriptive hierarchy in polyamory.
- Prescriptive hierarchy assigns fixed roles, while descriptive hierarchy uses labels to describe the organic flow of priorities.
Prescriptive Hierarchy Origins
- Prescriptive hierarchy often arises from the fear of change when opening a monogamous relationship.
- It can create a false sense of security by mimicking monogamous structures.
Non-Hierarchical Polyamory
- Avoid equating non-hierarchical polyamory with casual relationships.
- Life priorities and commitments naturally create variations in relationship dynamics.