CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT Will You Regret Having Children? with Amanda White
Apr 1, 2025
In this enlightening discussion, Amanda White, author of *Fence Sitter*, explores the intricate decision of motherhood and the emotional rollercoaster of parenthood. She delves into the societal pressures influencing family choices and the ambivalence many feel about having children. With candid reflections on joy, exhaustion, and potential regrets, Amanda encourages open conversations around parenting. This talk is a must-listen for anyone grappling with their own family dynamics and the evolving nature of these decisions.
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Disliking vs. Not Wanting
- There's a difference between disliking children and not wanting to be a parent.
- One can like or dislike children and still want or not want to be a parent.
Parenthood Paradox
- The intensity of simultaneous closeness and separation in parenthood is hard to grasp beforehand.
- The love for one's child provides context for otherwise unpleasant experiences, like repetitive kids' music.
Regret and Social Media
- Regretting having children is a major fear, fueled by social media's focus on negative experiences.
- These platforms often present snapshots of postpartum struggles without broader context.