Secondhand Therapy Hobby Hunting and Identity Crises | #091
Jul 21, 2025
In a candid exchange, Louie reveals his concerns about his therapist's politics while navigating the awkwardness of early therapy sessions. He embarks on a quest for hobbies that enrich his life and relationships, discussing the fine line between fun and obligation. Michael shares his identity struggles, prompting reflections on self-worth and the nature of good character. They confront the fears tied to creative pursuits and reassure each other that personal growth can mean letting go of toxic relationships.
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Therapist Red Flags Distract From Therapy
- Lou Paoletti nervously scans a new therapist for political and religious signs instead of focusing on therapy.
- He admits almost asking directly if she's a "Trumper" and finds relief when she seems nonreligious and from LA.
Pick Hobbies For Joy, Not Income
- Try low-pressure hobbies that align with your strengths and values instead of monetizing them.
- Seek activities that focus on pure enjoyment and presence rather than achievement or discipline.
Trying Multiple Creative Classes
- Lou plans to try painting, pottery, and a library podcasting class as low-stakes hobbies.
- He also jokes about 3D printing and imagines absurd outcomes like bringing home a gun-shaped prop.