Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - Losing My Best Friend
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Nov 18, 2021 A listener grapples with losing her best friend to a rushed marriage. Esther guides her through the complexities of friendship during major life transitions. They discuss the importance of open communication and empathy, especially as personal beliefs shift. The episode explores deep emotional connections, highlighting how external influences can strain bonds. It also touches on the challenges of navigating family dynamics, emphasizing the need for effective expression in relationships.
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Understanding Instead of Judging
- Ask your friend open-ended questions about her choices, showing genuine curiosity.
- Understand her motivations instead of imposing your judgments.
The Power of True Questions
- Disguised judgments as questions create defensiveness.
- True questions foster open communication and understanding.
Admitting Judgment
- Admit your judgmental behavior and express a desire to understand.
- Show vulnerability and create space for honest conversation.