

Episode 374 - The Marriage Is Great…Except for Sex
Jun 20, 2025
The discussion dives into the often-overlooked issues that impact marital intimacy. A strong friendship often masks deeper emotional disconnects, revealing that sexual dissatisfaction is more than just a minor issue. Unresolved conflicts and hidden resentments play significant roles in intimacy struggles. The conversation also emphasizes the importance of communication and encourages couples to rekindle their sexual identities. Ultimately, it’s about healing both the sexual relationship and the underlying emotional ties.
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Sex As A Relationship Barometer
- Sex often mirrors emotional, relational, or spiritual issues rather than being an isolated problem.
- When sex is off, it's usually a visible symptom of deeper disconnects in the marriage.
Rachel And Jared’s Avoidance Story
- Amanda shares Rachel and Jared, a couple who avoided deep emotional conversations and lost sexual connection.
- Their avoidance of conflict and risk left sex flat and eventually absent.
Peace Can Mask Emotional Avoidance
- Emotional avoidance disguised as peace blocks vulnerability needed for good sex.
- Safety without risk reduces passion and prevents true erotic intimacy.