Rena Malik, MD Podcast Why Cuddling After Sex Matters [And How It Bonds Couples]
Jul 25, 2025
In this discussion, Dr. Jim Pfaus, a renowned neuroscientist from Charles University, dives into the science of sexual attraction and bonding. He explains how early sexual experiences shape preferences and outlines the roles of dopamine and oxytocin in relationships. The conversation also touches on modern hookup culture's effects on emotional ties and the significance of cuddling in enhancing intimacy. Pfaus presents fascinating insights into how shared physical experiences deepen bonds, highlighting the neurochemistry behind our connections.
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Myth of Semen Retention
- Semen retention does not boost testosterone; abstinence generally lowers it.
- Orgasms without ejaculation are real and produce typical hormonal responses via brain motor memory.
Clarifying Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction
- Porn-induced erectile dysfunction often reflects extended refractory periods, not permanent dysfunction.
- Reducing frequency temporarily restores erectile function, disputing long-term porn impact myths.
Compulsion vs. Addiction in Sex
- Sexual compulsivity lacks withdrawal and tolerance seen in addiction, aligning more with compulsive behavior.
- Porn addiction claims oversimplify responsibility; brain neurotransmitters do not create true addiction.