Self-compassion expert Dr. Kristin Neff discusses balancing care for others with self-compassion, debunks myths of selfishness, and explains how to enhance relationships through kindness.
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Practicing self-compassion enables us to offer more compassion to others, improving the quality of our relationships.
Breathing compassion in and out can be a simple yet powerful practice to develop compassion in our relationships, acknowledging the difficulty in the situation for both ourselves and others.
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The Generosity of Self-Compassion
Self-compassion is not selfish; in fact, it is the most generous thing we can do for others. By practicing self-compassion, we have more compassion to offer and improve the quality of our relationships. Additionally, self-compassion helps us care for others without burning out. When we care for others, their pain impacts us, and if we don't show ourselves compassion, we deplete our own resources. However, practicing self-compassion allows us to hold that empathic pain without being overwhelmed, and it positively affects our interactions with others.
Breathing Compassion In and Out
To develop compassion in our relationships, a simple practice called 'breathing compassion in and out' can be helpful. When we are with someone struggling or in conflict, we can use our breath as a metaphorical vehicle for compassion. On the in-breath, we breathe in compassion for ourselves, acknowledging the difficulty of the situation. On the out-breath, we breathe out compassion, recognizing that it is also challenging for the other person. This practice reminds us that compassion is essential and can be incorporated into our daily interactions.
Self-compassion expert and co-founder of the Center for Mindful Self-Compassion Dr. Kristin Neff is guest hosting this week on Radio Headspace. Today she explores balancing care for others with self-compassion, debunks the myths around selfishness, and explains how to enhance relationships through kindness.
If you'd like to continue learning about self-compassion, check out Dr. Neff's online Mindful Self-Compassion courses here. All Radio Headspace listeners will receive a 15% discount for upcoming courses with the following code: cmscheadspace. This code is good through September 30, 2024.