

Making Sense of Encounters With Violence
Jan 26, 2023
Former FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss shares tactical empathy insights for high-stress situations, followed by security expert Gavin de Becker discussing redefining fear. The conversation extends to gun ownership ethics, pacifism, and the concept of honor in society. Thought-provoking discussions on violence, intuition, self-defense, and societal perspectives on preparedness for extreme scenarios.
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Use Your Name To Humanize Captors
- Repeat your name and behave cooperatively to become a person rather than an object to captors.
- Build rapport with kidnappers to increase chances of being treated better and surviving.
Escape Without Violence When Possible
- If you attempt escape, avoid using violence because captors may respond with lethal force.
- Walk or run away when possible; captors expect flight but punish violence more severely.
Fear Is An Evolved Signal
- Fear is an evolved signal that helped ancestors avoid death and is therefore informative.
- Evolution tuned fear for past environments, so modern threats can both under- and over-trigger it.