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I Wish You Knew

Why NARCISSISTS Plague Millennial Relationships | Ep 9 | I Wish You Knew

Jan 4, 2024
Experts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore discuss the distinction between narcissistic traits and true narcissism, the consequences of overusing the term 'narcissist,' and the reasons why victims of narcissism may exhibit narcissistic tendencies themselves. They also explore attachment styles, the impact of social media on dating, and the myths surrounding male sexuality. The podcast concludes with strategies for navigating rejection, fostering healthy relationships, and empowering men in the dating scene.
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Quick takeaways

  • Understanding the true nature of narcissism is important to avoid mislabeling and pathologizing behavior.
  • Recognizing and understanding anxious and avoidant attachment styles can lead to healing and growth in relationships.

Deep dives

Understanding the Difference between Narcissistic Traits and Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Narcissism is often misunderstood, with many people using the term incorrectly. True narcissism is a personality disorder characterized by an excessive sense of self-importance and a belief in one's superiority. The origins of narcissism can be traced back to Greek mythology, where Narcissus fell in love with his own reflection. It is important to differentiate between selfishness, which everyone exhibits at times, and narcissism. Labeling someone as a narcissist without a proper diagnosis is unfair, as it pathologizes their behavior and promotes an irredeemable image. It's crucial to be mindful of the language we use and to understand the true nature of narcissism.

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