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What I Love About Sex

#194 Is she shit-testing you?

Dec 17, 2020
Delve into the intriguing concept of 'shit testing' and discover why women engage in this behavior. Learn how to turn these challenges into opportunities for personal growth and relationship enhancement. Explore the stark differences between how weak and strong men react to these tests. Shift your perspective on encounters with women and understand that they can be a pathway to building emotional strength.
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Quick takeaways

  • Women shit-test men to assess emotional strength and secure a reliable partner, making it an instinctual behavior rather than manipulation.
  • Men should embrace shit-testing as an opportunity to showcase emotional stability and playfulness, which promotes trust and deepens relationship bonds.

Deep dives

Understanding Shit Testing

Shit testing is a common behavior exhibited by women in relationships, where they present challenges to test a man's emotional strength and character. This testing serves an instinctive purpose to ensure their safety and the well-being of potential offspring, as women are generally attuned to seek out emotionally strong partners. Men need to recognize that these tests are not games meant to manipulate; rather, they are opportunities to demonstrate confidence and emotional integrity. By responding effectively to these challenges, a man can affirm his leadership role within the relationship and build trust with his partner.

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