Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda Episode 007: What To Look For In A Girl
Apr 8, 2019
Exploring what guys should look for in a girl beyond physical attraction, emphasizing trustworthiness, dependability, and commitment. Discussing the significance of finding a partner with a secure identity in Christ and the value of modesty in relationships. Highlighting qualities like caregiving, spiritual values, and faithfulness, while stressing the importance of pursuing happiness and holiness in relationships.
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Problematic Attraction
- Recognize the problematic nature of being attracted to pornographic figures.
- This attraction indicates a deviation from God's values and can lead to harmful consequences.
Avoid the Savior Complex
- Avoid the "savior complex" of wanting to rescue a "hot mess."
- Men are not meant to be saviors; only Jesus can fulfill that role.
Beyond Physical Attraction
- Physical attraction is important but fleeting, like the tip of an iceberg.
- Focus on the 90% below the surface: character, values, and faith.