Discover the psychology behind compliments and how they can create deep attraction. Learn three different compliments for different situations - messaging someone on an app, meeting someone in person, and building attraction with someone you already know. This episode provides practical advice and encourages listeners to use one of these compliments today.
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Compliment uncommon aspects to stand out and separate ourselves from generic compliments.
Opt for indirect compliments when meeting someone in person to acknowledge their taste and decision-making abilities.
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Complimenting Uncommon Aspects to Stand Out
When giving compliments to someone, it is important to focus on aspects that they don't hear every day. While it may be tempting to compliment their physical appearance based on a carefully edited photo, this doesn't make us stand out. Instead, we should look beyond the surface and pay attention to the details. Compliment their choice of books, their skills, or something happening in the periphery of a picture. By complimenting uncommon aspects, we will separate ourselves from the white noise of generic compliments.
Using Indirect Compliments to Alleviate Pressure
When meeting someone in person, directly complimenting their physical features can feel overwhelming. Instead, opt for indirect compliments. Notice and appreciate the choices they've made, such as their jacket, shoes, or the order they placed. This shifts the focus from something genetic or inherent to something external. Not only does it alleviate the pressure, but it can also hold more meaning as it acknowledges their taste and decision-making abilities.
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The Art of Compliments: Creating Attraction and Connection
There's some really interesting psychology about compliments: not all of them have the same effect. You can give generic compliments, or you can give compliments that create real attraction and connection between the two of you. One of these compliments works for when you first message someone on an app... The 2nd one is great for when you are meeting someone in person... The 3rd one is for someone you already know and want to build more attraction with. This episode is super practical. Take a few minutes to listen, then make it a mission to use one of these compliments today. --- >>> Get 5 More Compliments That Build Serious Attraction. Tap Below to Download Your Free Guide... → http://www.SayThisToHim.com
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