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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

4 Reasons Children Seek Validation (And How to Respond)

Sep 24, 2018
Exploring children seeking validation post-sibling's birth, reasons behind validation-seeking behaviors, fostering self-esteem, and promoting authentic self-validation in kids.
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  • Validating a child's accomplishments and desires can reduce their need for external approval and boost their self-worth.
  • Giving undivided attention during a child's moments of accomplishment can positively impact their behavior and need for validation.

Deep dives

Importance of Providing Validation to Children

Children seek validation for various reasons, such as past experiences of receiving validation or dealing with confidence issues. The parent's response to a child seeking validation is crucial as it can impact the child's feelings of security and confidence. Offering genuine and enthusiastic validation can help reduce the child's need for external approval and strengthen their sense of self-worth.

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