112: Parker Palmer: Courage, Vocation, and Paradox
Jul 13, 2023
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Parker Palmer, Quaker writer, speaker, and activist, shares wisdom on vocation, embracing paradox, and overcoming depression. He emphasizes the importance of listening to oneself, conducting personal experiments, and learning from experiences. Parker also discusses the power of embracing paradox and vulnerability in teaching. He opens up about his own experiences with depression and highlights the value of seeking professional help. The podcast concludes with an insightful interview with Parker J Palmer about his impactful work and personal journey.
Discovering one's vocation and finding purpose in life involves a series of experiments and exploration to understand one's selfhood, identity, and integrity.
Embracing paradox allows for curiosity and exploring both sides of any situation, fostering a community of truth-seekers who are open to different perspectives and willing to challenge their own thinking.
Deep dives
The Importance of Discovering Vocation and Finding Purpose
Discovering one's vocation and finding purpose in life is crucial for living a good life. It is not about a specific job or career but rather about making meaning and finding purpose in one's life. Vocation involves a series of experiments and exploration to understand one's selfhood, identity, and integrity. It is a journey that requires paying attention to small successes and course correction. Vocation is not a linear path but an unfolding question with different answers at different times.
Embracing Paradox and the Curiosity it Inspires
Embracing paradox is essential for a holistic understanding of the world. Rather than seeking definitive answers, embracing paradox allows for curiosity and exploring both sides of any situation. Paradox acknowledges that life is not simply either/or but often both/and. It challenges the myth of objectivism and highlights the importance of relational skills, emotional intelligence, and diverse perspectives in various disciplines. Embracing paradox leads to a deeper appreciation for complexity and fosters a community of truth-seekers who are open to different perspectives and willing to challenge their own thinking.
Navigating the Depths of Depression and Small Successes
Depression can manifest in various forms and has multiple causes, making it a complex experience. At its depths, depression can feel like becoming the darkness, where there is no distinction between the self and depression itself. Recovery from depression often involves recognizing small successes and keeping track of progress, even when it may seem insignificant. Small successes, measured in small increments, can provide encouragement and help in navigating the journey towards healing. While depression can be exhausting and isolating, finding support from therapists, engaging in self-reflection, and gradually embracing small victories can contribute to a path of growth and learning.
Letting Go of Regrets and Embracing the Journey
Regret is no longer a viable word when reflecting on one's life. Instead of dwelling on regrets, it is more productive to view missteps and challenges as opportunities for growth and learning. Every experience shapes one's journey and provides valuable lessons. By reframing past experiences and searching for the ways they have contributed to personal development, one can find hope and gratitude, even in difficult moments. The story we tell ourselves about our lives has the power to shape us and can be viewed with a lens of self-growth, making each step a valuable part of the journey.
“Things didn’t come together vocationally for me until I was 50.”
Now 84 years old, Quaker writer, speaker, and activist Parker Palmer has much to say about living a good life. And in his experience, a good life is often hard-won and counterintuitive.
In this episode, Parker covers a lot of ground, offering wisdom gleaned from a life lived at attention to the makings of a good life. He tells about his experience seeking and finding vocation, discovering how a rich life entails the embrace of paradox, and living through two major bouts of depression which gave him an increased attention to life’s small things.
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