

257: Bonus - Blowjobs Aren't Just for Husbands
Aug 12, 2025
Join sex coach Danielle Savory, who empowers women to embrace their pleasure, in a candid conversation about oral sex. She shares how giving can be profoundly pleasurable and meaningful, reshaping intimacy in marriage. The discussion tackles societal pressures, self-acceptance, and communication in sexual experiences. Danielle also offers practical tips on enhancing oral techniques while emphasizing the importance of both partners' desires. This enlightening talk encourages a deeper emotional connection and challenges conventional views on intimacy.
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Early Shame Over Enjoying Blowjobs
- Danielle recalled being shamed by other women when she enthusiastically said she loved giving blowjobs.
- That moment made her question her enjoyment until she prioritized her own and her partner's feelings.
Mindset Over Technique
- Danielle emphasizes reframing oral sex beyond technique toward an attitude shift and ownership.
- She argues that mindset and how you show up matter more than perfect technique.
Practical Hygiene And Hydration
- Prioritize hygiene and hydration: ask your partner to clean up and have water nearby to use as lubrication.
- Use flavored lube if desired and avoid forcing mindset work when practical fixes help first.