Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 521 - Finding Fairness in Non-monogamy
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Mar 18, 2025 Dive into the intriguing complexities of fairness in non-monogamous relationships. Discover the crucial distinctions between equity and equality, and how these concepts play out among multiple partners. Explore the impact of perceived fairness on relationship satisfaction and learn practical communication strategies. Personal anecdotes and recent research illustrate the nuances of shared responsibilities and emotional burdens. Embrace a community dialogue on fostering equity and navigating the dynamics of love, care, and connection.
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Fairness Across Spectrums
- Fairness is a value prioritized by people across the political spectrum, suggesting its importance for social cohesion.
- However, definitions and applications of fairness vary widely, particularly in political discourse.
Equality vs. Equity
- Equality means treating everyone the same, regardless of individual needs, while equity considers individual circumstances.
- Applying equality rigidly can lead to unfair outcomes by disregarding individual contexts.
Unfair Quantification
- Jase Lindgren shares an experience where monetary contributions were unfairly equated with relationship effort.
- This highlights how quantifying contributions can create an imbalance and resentment.