107: Coaching with Beth: Blame, Shame and Wanting a More Peaceful Home

[4:10] About Beth and her three kids

[6:30] Sophie’s background and wanting a more peaceful home for her family

[10:15] Why rewards don't work

[12:55] What co-regulating is and why it’s important

[19:45] Being an intense person and peaceful parenting

[24:20] Meeting your child where they are

[35:10] What systems can you have in place for a child who loses things?

[37:30] Gardener and Carpenter metaphor

[38:45] Wanting to help your kids, but at what cost to the relationship?

[41:10] Four-week update

[45:25] The challenges around not wanting to help our kids “too much”

[47:20] Sensory triggers while getting dressed

[49:35] Shifting our mindset around ‘blame’

[52:20] How to be more patient when wanting quicker results