
The Dildorks Hard-Won Wisdom
Apr 23, 2024
Celebrate Kate's birthday with insights on sex, dating, and relationships! Discover how masturbation can be a self-care ritual, and the impact of New Relationship Energy. Dive into the dynamics of long-term partnerships that prioritize emotional work. Learn about the importance of friendships in romantic contexts and how fatigue can influence choices. The hosts explore fantasies, S/M, and address jealousy in non-monogamous settings. Plus, get tips on effective flirting and the art of metacommunication!
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Birthdays Are Just Days
- Birthdays are just days and often feel less important than imagined.
- Celebrate small wins year-round to lower birthday pressure and mark time meaningfully.
Make First Dates Low-Pressure
- Try Schrodinger-style hangouts where the date status becomes clear in-person.
- Be your real self early to attract better-fitting people with less effort.
Masturbate Like Self-Care
- Treat masturbation as regular self-care that boosts mood and sexual attunement.
- Use it intentionally to maintain libido and remind your body pleasure exists.






