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The RELATIONSHIP Expert: THIS Is Why 70% of Relationships FAIL In The First Year | Stephan Speaks

Feb 9, 2024

In this discussion, relationship expert Stephan Speaks spills invaluable insights on navigating the tricky terrain of love. He emphasizes the importance of healing past traumas to pave the way for healthier connections. Stephan distinguishes between constructive disagreements that foster growth and harmful arguments that break down respect. He also explores the distinct emotional needs of partners, discussing how vulnerability and self-awareness can deepen connections. Plus, he urges listeners to embark on personal healing journeys before seeking new relationships.

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Quick takeaways

Prioritize healing from past relationships before entering the dating scene.

Trust your intuition and recognize true connections early on in dating.

Consciously choose positive thoughts and language to attract healthy relationships.

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Importance of Healing Before Dating

Before getting into the dating scene, it is crucial to prioritize healing from past relationships. This involves acknowledging and addressing the hurt and trauma experienced, and seeking therapy or counseling if necessary. Healing allows individuals to let go of negative perceptions and fears that may sabotage potential new relationships. It also involves being vulnerable, open, and ready to fully embrace a new connection.

Disagreement is acceptable. Disrespect is not.

01:36

Intuition vs Fear in Relationships

01:16

The Feminine Craves Love in a Relationship

01:46

Cut Off Influences that Feed the Struggle

01:38

Intro

5min

Navigating Relationship Dynamics

19min

Navigating Complexities in Relationships

5min

Navigating Emotional Needs in Relationships

8min

The Illusion of Time in Love

8min

Navigating Healing and Relationships: The Risks of Emotional Distraction

3min

Healing Before Dating

8min

The Journey of Self-Healing Before Seeking Relationships

2min

Today we share conversations on love and relationships with an SOG fan favorite, Stephan Speaks. Stephan and Lewis touch on the transformative power of healing, the strength found in showing vulnerability, and the secret sauce to keeping connections alive and thriving over time. Stephan opens up about the journey of mending from past wounds as a gateway to more joyful and satisfying partnerships ahead. He draws a clear line between the kind of disagreements that foster growth and the arguments that tear us apart, reminding us that respect is the way through any rough patch.

In this episode you will learn

How to navigate the healing process from past relationships to make room for healthier future connections.
The difference between constructive disagreements and harmful arguing, and the importance of maintaining respect.
Strategies for improving communication skills to better express needs and understand those of a partner.
The significance of emotional safety and vulnerability in deepening relationship connections.
Ways to recognize and address unhealed trauma that can affect current and future relationships.

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