The Catholic Gentleman

The 5 Hidden Vices Fathers Pass to Their Children Without Even Realizing It

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Dec 18, 2025
Fathers unknowingly pass on hidden vices to their children, shaping their behaviors and beliefs. Emotional irregularity can lead to childhood stress, while the power of speech can rewire kids’ perspectives. The discussion moves to the impact of technology on attention spans and the importance of setting boundaries. Workaholism is highlighted as a competing idol, urging men to prioritize family. They emphasize the significance of open conversations about sexuality and the role of sacrificial love in breaking generational cycles.
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ANECDOTE

Fatherhood As Cellular Diffusion

  • Devin compares fatherhood to cellular diffusion: what a father is richest in he transmits to his children.
  • He cites the song 'Cat's in the Cradle' to show fathers often reap what they sow.
INSIGHT

Emotional Irregularity Harms Kids

  • Emotional irregularity in fathers creates chronic stress and makes children feel responsible for managing dad's moods.
  • Modeling emotional regularity teaches children self-mastery and prevents generational anxiety.
ADVICE

Name Emotions And Channel Them

  • Name your emotion out loud when you feel it to create a pause and evaluate the right response.
  • Use prayer, exercise, fasting, sleep, and diet to channel emotions toward virtue.
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